g 1/09 p. 20 “I had a huge crush on him, and then a couple of years later, he actually started noticing me! I liked having an older boyfriend who would watch out for me.”—Carol . In time, both Jessica and Carol broke up with their boyfriends. Why? Were they foolish for giving up such great guys? YOU’VE been dating for nearly a year. At first, you were sure that he was “the one.” * At times, you can even rekindle the romantic feelings that characterized the onset of your relationship. But now you’re having second thoughts. Should you ignore those thoughts? How can you know if you should break up? First, you need to face a cold truth: Disregarding danger signs in a relationship is like ignoring the warning signals on your car’s dashboard. The problem will not go away; likely it will only get worse. What are some of the danger signs in a relationship that you would do well to heed? Things are moving too fast. Problems c